During the first lockdown in 2020, the whole world was scared, everyone was probably thinking if they're gonna make it. Everyone was praying not to lose a family member. Nobody wants to experience loss. It is probably the hardest feeling ever, and no matter how much you try to cope, you just can't.
At that time, my addiction for a game called
VRCHAT started. I played it everyday. I could play it for 6 hours and wouldn't
even notice! At that time, thousands of people all over the world joined VRCHAT
to kill time and to socialize.
At that time, I got closer to a guy who had the username "Don Fluffles". He's 16 from America. I noticed that he speaks a bit slower than others, I asked our mutual friend why is that. He told me that he has a disability. I was curious to know more, but didn't get to ask, because Don suggested that he'd play a video of himself so that we get to know more about him. Gosh he always reaches people first! Isn't that absolutely brave?
The video shows Jonathan, which is his real name, competing with his team in a cross-country race, from a WHEELCHAIR! It was so inspiring! After that, he explained that he has cerebellar hypoplasia, a rare neurological condition that affects muscle tone and coordination. But that didn't stop him at all! He always speaks about cross-country with passion. When I got to know him, he was sad because he had to stop the cross-country meetings during the lockdown. And I still remember how happy he was when it was all over.
You may be wondering how can someone be this
brave and passionate.. you know life is never easy on any of us. Well, this is
Jonathan's life motto that keeps him motivated: "Let me tell you something
you already know. The world ain’t all sunshine and rainbows. It’s a very mean and
nasty place, and I don’t care how tough you are, it will beat you to your knees
and keep you there permanently if you let it. You, me, or nobody is gonna hit
as hard as life. But it ain’t about how hard you hit. It’s about how hard you
can get hit and keep moving forward; how much you can take and keep moving
forward. That’s how winning is done! Now, if you know what you’re worth, then
go out and get what you’re worth. But you gotta be willing to take the hits,
and not pointing fingers saying you ain’t where you wanna be because of him, or
her, or anybody. Cowards do that and that ain’t you. You’re better than
that!", And as you would have guessed by now, he's a big fan of Rocky
movie series!
Aside from that, this young man surely loves
singing and he's the best karaoke partner! He's a huge metalhead and he
introduced me to some new songs. Knowing Jonathan surely had a positive impact
on me and I'm sure he had the same impact on most of the people he knows. He's
so lively. He loves to draw and play videogames. He's a kind person overall!
And I'm sure he's gonna be an awesome man, hopefully we can meet in the future!
Having a disability doesn't and shouldn't
stop you from doing what you want. On the contrary, I think it makes you
appreciate life more. It makes you wanna seize every opportunity. I'm so proud
of Jonathan for believing in himself. Hopefully we get to see you in the Paralympics
very soon! I will be rooting for you forever and always!



I love this so much :") so many inspiring people out there that just make me want to get up and seize my day to the fullest. Great piece as always, Omegabun ❤❤
ReplyDeleteThank you so much! ^^ I'm glad you enjoyed this! And I totally agree with you, he's so inspiring.
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